for the future me

Used to think it's such a far and scary thought...but now it's not so far and not so scary anymore. it's actually just like any other commitment. A pet, a job, a religion even. If you can hang in there and put in time and effort for all these, why not a marriage? the only difference, i guess, is that people don't judge you as much if you give up..let's say..your pet..

Unknowingly, I've become one of those disrupted the "proper" chronological order and got a flat before any of the real marriage stuff. So Singaporean :( and so unromantic. And well, it's because of this that I've started to fantasize alot more about the decor of my house :) typical girl~ i still want my lala land-y stuff like my swing and walk-in wardrobe..can i have swings in my living room instead of sofa? :D

I've also started wondering why people don't take wedding shots at night with, say, the marina bayfront as backdrop. Taking photos at night so good...less imperfections captured, not as hot, don't need to pile on the powder every half hour, etc etc. plus it's special. oh well..mental note to self: wedding shoot must have some night shots.

well, most importantly, marriage is about the person you're going thru it with. you have to accept him as you know him, and not define him in the way others expect him to.

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